{"id":1159,"date":"2025-08-10T08:58:11","date_gmt":"2025-08-10T08:58:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parenting.catherineliew.com\/?p=1159"},"modified":"2025-08-10T08:58:11","modified_gmt":"2025-08-10T08:58:11","slug":"1-parenting-psychologist-what-is-over-parenting-are-you-doing-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parenting.catherineliew.com\/?p=1159","title":{"rendered":"#1 Parenting Psychologist: What Is Over-Parenting &amp; Are You Doing It?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Aliza Pressman, a developmental psychologist with nearly two decades of experience. Dr. Pressman, host of the Raising Good Humans podcast and author of The Five Principles of Parenting, offers expert insights into parenting strategies and child development.<\/p>\n<p>This is a must-watch for parents, caregivers, and anyone interested in raising emotionally resilient and well-rounded children!<\/p>\n<p>In this interview, we discuss:<br \/>\n00:00 Intro<br \/>\n02:57 Should You Be A Parent?<br \/>\n05:50 Secure Attachment Relationships<br \/>\n07:15 Parental Guilt Explained<br \/>\n11:07 Building Resilience<br \/>\n15:31 The Risks Of Over-Parenting<br \/>\n17:03 You Need A Parenting Mission Statement!<br \/>\n26:31 Embrace Parental Failure<br \/>\n31:14 Communication Styles For Every Age Stage<br \/>\n35:10 Is There A &#8216;Right&#8217; Way To Discipline?<br \/>\n39:10 3 Types Of Parenting Styles<br \/>\n41:36 How Rejections Leads To Independence<br \/>\n45:34 Tools To Help Your Child When They&#8217;re Struggling<br \/>\n51:46 Having The Social Media Talk<br \/>\n57:12 Raising Confident Kids<br \/>\n01:01:40 Reward Your Child\u2019s Achievements<br \/>\n01:05:53 You Can\u2019t Control Your Kids, You Can Control Your Actions<br \/>\n01:07:23 Aliza On Final Five<\/p>\n<p>Episode Resources:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"2TZz2ORJmz\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/draliza.com\/\">Home<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; visibility: hidden;\" title=\"&#8220;Home&#8221; &#8212; Dr. Aliza Pressman\" src=\"https:\/\/draliza.com\/embed\/#?secret=BVTPyE8WW4#?secret=2TZz2ORJmz\" data-secret=\"2TZz2ORJmz\" width=\"500\" height=\"282\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.instagram.com\/raisinggoodhumanspodcast<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.facebook.com\/raisinggoodhumanspodcast\/<br \/>\n<iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" title=\"Raising Good Humans\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"341\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/raising-good-humans\/id1473072044#?secret=TiZ9d7n8Ep\" data-secret=\"TiZ9d7n8Ep\"><\/iframe><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The 5 Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans\" type=\"text\/html\" width=\"500\" height=\"550\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen style=\"max-width:100%\" src=\"https:\/\/read.amazon.com\/kp\/card?preview=inline&#038;linkCode=kpd&#038;ref_=k4w_oembed_Be8zcJDxUbk245&#038;asin=166801453X&#038;tag=kpembed-20\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jayshetty\/<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jayshetty\/<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/x.com\/jayshetty<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/shettyjay\/<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@JayShettyPodcast<br \/>\nhttp:\/\/jayshetty.me<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Aliza Pressman, a developmental psychologist with nearly two decades of experience. 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