{"id":2083,"date":"2026-09-19T08:18:09","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T08:18:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parenting.catherineliew.com\/?p=2083"},"modified":"2026-09-19T08:18:09","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T08:18:09","slug":"why-good-parenting-creates-clingy-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parenting.catherineliew.com\/?p=2083","title":{"rendered":"Why \u201cGood Parenting\u201d Creates Clingy Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the things we do to be more present (helping quickly, praising constantly, or joining every activity) can accidentally make independent play harder.<\/p>\n<p>In this video, we look at four common parenting habits that can affect a child\u2019s confidence, persistence, self-regulation, and ability to play independently. 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