{"id":332,"date":"2024-01-17T08:33:31","date_gmt":"2024-01-17T08:33:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parenting.catherineliew.com\/?p=332"},"modified":"2024-01-17T08:33:31","modified_gmt":"2024-01-17T08:33:31","slug":"worlds-leading-relationship-therapist-why-your-ego-is-ruining-your-relationship-ester-perel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parenting.catherineliew.com\/?p=332","title":{"rendered":"WORLD&#8217;S LEADING RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST: Why Your EGO is RUINING your relationship! | Ester Perel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is back. Esther is recognized as one of today\u2019s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. If you&#8217;ve ever wondered when a relationship is worth saving or why we grieve after a breakup, Esther has incredible insights to share that you can apply to your own relationship. Let&#8217;s discover the power of accountability in relationships and how it can trigger positive change!<\/p>\n<p>If you liked this episode, then you\u2019ll enjoy my conversation with world-leading therapist Lori Gottlieb: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=b3yAuqcjmJk&amp;t=2727s<\/p>\n<p>What We Discuss:<br \/>\n00:00 Intro<br \/>\n02:14 Why Do We Grieve After a Breakup?<br \/>\n09:05 How to Turn Conflict Into Connection<br \/>\n16:03 Negative Effects of Losing &#8220;Curiosity&#8221;<br \/>\n20:58 The Blame Game<br \/>\n26:10 How to Make Your Partner Feel Important<br \/>\n33:11 Doing New Things Together<br \/>\n39:27 Mutual Breakups<br \/>\n47:21 Before &amp; After Betrayal<br \/>\n53:41 The Intersection of Relationships, Technology, and Mental Health<br \/>\n57:28 The False Relationship Narrative that Failed us<br \/>\n01:08:54 Diversifying Long-Term Relationships<br \/>\n01:15:02 Why Passion Doesn&#8217;t Always Last<br \/>\n01:20:02 The Real Definition of Self Confidence<br \/>\n01:27:03 &#8220;Where Should We Begin?&#8221; A Game of Stories with Esther Perel<\/p>\n<p>Episode Resources:<br \/>\nwww.estherperel.com<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/EstherPerel<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.instagram.com\/estherperelofficial\/<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UC4eN7PS9mi8__4EYxy6VpFw<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.facebook.com\/esther.perel\/<br \/>\nEsther&#8217;s books: https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/stores\/Esther-Perel\/author\/B001IGJWEU?ref=ap_rdr&amp;store_ref=ap_rdr&amp;isDramIntegrated=true&amp;shoppingPortalEnabled=true<br \/>\nEsther&#8217;s podcast: https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel\/id1237931798<\/p>\n<p>Want to learn to coach like Jay Shetty? 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